The fore mentioned person in my last post who I’ll refer to as “Bob” finally viewed my “I think people who abstain from sex should say NO to bullying” article. However, I totally disagreed with the response he wrote to it.
I had disagreed with Bob’s views that Virgins should “use a lying spirit” and do everything they can to hide the fact that they are Virgins. I relish my Virginity and I don’t understand why anyone who is a Virgin wouldn’t feel anything but proud and fortunate. There’s nothing more pathetic than being ashamed of who and what you are. And no matter what they say, anyone who would deny their Virginity is ashamed of it in my book. The Bobs of the world may argue that lying about being a Virgin will protect you from those that won’t like you for it. But 42 years of experience has taught me that people who don’t like you for being a virgin are either envious, resentful, or insecure. They want nothing better than to make you feel bad about yourself. And if they can shame you into hiding deep in the Chastity closet, where you are not a threat to them — they win. Why give them that power? Why allow people who secretly don’t think they are as good as you feel as though you are the loser?
Later I’ll post the comment that Bob wrote to my article and give you my response to it.
Miss Daphne
Virginity's Voice 
Bruce
/ September 16, 2011What an insight survey, I like your post.
missdaphne
/ September 16, 2011Thank you very much. : )
martyn turner
/ May 9, 2014I am a 54yr old male virgin and proud to be a virgin. The word sex has no meaning for me and it is my choice to remain a virgin for life. I have the utmost respect for all virgins and would like to see the virgin population grow. Like you I relish my virginity and don’t have any problems expressing myself as a virgin, in fact I am passionate about virginity and agree with your views on this subject. I have no sexual experience and am an example of a very small number of virgins at this level and this is something I would never hide. I take great pride in being a virgin and only wish there was an organization to represent virgins at this level to represent our views. If you are aware of one please let me know so that I can join and represent modern day virgins in their true light.
Miss Daphne
/ May 14, 2014First, I want to apologize to you and everyone else for not being active in so many months and I intend to have some new posts coming out in the very near future. As for Virgin organizations, I know of none. None that are valid, anyway. One of the purposes of this blog was and is to be a place where virgins can come together and hopefully we can build a legitimate organization from there. I appreciate your interest in my blog and applaud your dedication to keeping your virginity.
54yr old virgin
/ May 25, 2014It would be great to build a legitimate organization for virgins, I am a dedicated virgin and represent the modern day perpetual virgin. I also agree with your viewpoints on virginity and it is a pleasure to find a like minded virgin. If you ever need any help in this respect I would only be to pleased to assist.
Miss Daphne
/ June 8, 2014Thanks. I’ll keep that in mind.